Arthur AUBREY Dancey

1924 - 1996
LocationLoughton,essex
Age72 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth27/03/1924
Date of Death21/10/1996
Visitors9,118 since 17/01/2009
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MY DAD WAS A HARD WORKING MAN AND PROVIDED WELL FOR MUM AND ME, HE WAS ONE OF 14 CHILDREN BUT NOT
ALL SURVIVED, HE SERVED IN THE PARA REGIMENT DURING THE WAR WHERE HE WAS SHOT IN THE WRIST.DAD
SUFFERED WITH CANCER FOR ABOUT 18 MONTHS BUT NEVER LOST HIS SENSE OF HUMOUR, HE LOVED WORKING IN HIS
GARDEN AND GREENHOUSE AND WOULD HELP ANYONE OUT IF HE WAS ABLE TO. DAD WORKED AT FRENCHES AND THEN
WENT ONTO DEBDEN HOUSE AS A GARDNER AND GREEN KEEPER UNTIL HE RETIRED.WHEN HE GOT THE CANCER HE HAD
TO HAVE PART OF HIS EAR REMOVED BUT THIS NEVER STOPPED HIM FROM GOING OUT HE DIDN,T CARE IF PEOPLE
WAS LOOKING AT HIM,THE CANCER SPREAD TO HIS CHEEK AND HE HAD TO HAVE IT PAINFULLY PACKED BY THE
DISTRICT NURSE BUT HE STILL WENT OUT ,MY DAD WAS A REMARKABLE MAN AND WE BOTH WILL ALWAYS MISS HIM,
LOVE YOU LOT,S DAD XXXXXXXXX
HEARTFELT THANKS TO EVERYONE FOR THE TRIBUTES,PHOTO,S AND CANDLES LEFT IN DAD,S MEMORY IT MEANS A
LOT TO MUM AND ME XXXXXXXXXXX ♥♥♥♥♥♥ PLEASE READ MANY THANKS TO STEPHEN MEARA-BLOUNT
FOR SHARING HIS BEAUTIFUL VIDEO AND HIS MUSIC BLESS YOU STEPHEN X Thank you to Andy Ruck for
writing and singing this lovely song and Stephen Meara-Blount for adding another lovely
video,blessyou both x Please read !!!!!!!! Thank you everyone for looking after me while Linda,s
internet was down Love to you all from Angel Arthur ♥♥♥♥♥♥ LINK FOR DADS STAR FEEL
FREE TO TAKE A LOOK . http://www.freenameastar.com/viewstar.php?id=44847
PLEASE READ !!!!!!!!! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR GIVING ME A SPECIAL ANGEL DAY AND FOR LOOKING
AFTER LINDA FOR ME,MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL FROM ANGEL ARTHUR X♥X


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MAY THE WORLD HUG YOU TODAY
WITH IT’S WARMTH AND LOVE.
I PRAY IT WISPERS A JOYFUL
TUNE IN YOUR HEART.
AND MAY THE WIND CARRY
A VOICE THAT TELLS YOU…
THERE IS A FRIEND SITTING
IN ANOTHER CORNER OF
THE WORLD,THAT WISHES
YOU WELL.
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Love Carol.xxx

Carol O'Brien (GTS Friend) February 10, 2009

GOODNIGHT MY FRIEND
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I have a little Angel he's way up in the sky,
I've asked him to watch over you,
He replied ok, but why?
I told him I really love you,
you mean so much to me,
He said he'll take care of you.
So when you feel the warmth at night he's
letting you know he's near,
He's right beside where ever you go,
He'll wipe away your tears.

Send this to your friends and family and let them know you really love them!

I JUST DID !!!!!!!!!!


LOTS OF LOVE, JUDE.X
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Jude Swaddle (Friend) February 10, 2009

GOODNIGHT AND GOD BLESS

I Still Miss You.


Lord, please hold on tightly, to my loved one that I lost,
The nights are cold and lonely, like the freezing from a frost.
I close my eyes at night, hoping sleep will over come...
Hoping that by morning, my body won’t feel numb.
Oh, God, how hard it is at times, even after all these years,
The pain just never goes away... nor do all the tears.
I can’t seem to focus, on the things I know I must,
For I still see the face, of the one I love and trust.
The holidays are rough, Dear God, even though I try my best,
But I can’t seem to forget the day; I laid my love to rest.
I read a book, I watch TV, and I try to write a letter,
Hoping and praying, each day will soon get better.
Easter will soon to be here, then the holiday season on its way;
It’s so difficult to celebrate, since my love has gone away.
Forgive me Lord, for I am weak, and I wish to be strong,
Please take this sadness from my heart; replace it with a song.
Oh Lord, help me remember, you, are only a prayer away,
And when I keep my faith in You, I know I’ll be okay.
So as the holidays approach … to my loved one I express,
Not a day on earth goes by, that I fail to think of “us”.
And now I must be thankful, for God, I love you so
Just knowing you are there for me, so much to You, I owe.
Now in the quiet of the night, the snow falls from above,
As I look into the Heavens, I still miss my precious love.
Tonight I’ll light a candle, for the one I miss so much;
Knowing I can never feel, that tender loving touch.
But when I leave this world, and join my love again,
I’ll know in my heart, in God’s hands he’ll remain.



~Author~ Ruth Ann Mahaffey � 2006



LOVE JUDE. X

Jude Swaddle (Friend) February 9, 2009

Memories

The photo album of my mind
Holds treasured thoughts of you,
And I can almost see again
The things we used to do.
I hear your voice; I see your smile;
I feel you close to me.
The photo album of my mind
Shows how we used to be.
Time may have changed us through the years.
But I will always find
You’re just as I remember in
The album of my mind.
And, as I turn page after page,
Such precious scenes I see.
The photo album of my mind
Is very dear to me.
It holds the pictures of our past
Like reels of film unwind.
I cherish all those photos in
The album of my mind.

Thinking of you angel and your family xxx

Jill Ben'S Mum Xx (Close Friend) February 8, 2009

Memories Build a Special Bridge
(Emily Matthews)

Our memories build a special bridge
when loved ones have to part
to help us feel we're with them still
and sooth a grieving heart.
Our memories span the years we shared,
preserving ties that bind,
They build a special bridge of love
and bring us peace of mind.

God bless xxxx

Karen Carter (GTS Friend) February 8, 2009

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The Lord needed a flower
and that flower was you
so he picked you up from down here
and up and up you flew

He planted you in his garden
he said 'You'll stay here now with me'
and there you'll stay away from harm
the prettiest flower you'll always be

Jackie Summerford (GTS Friend) February 8, 2009

7TH FEBRUARY 2009

✿*.*。✿ I NEEDED SOMEONE SPECIAL..........✿*.* 。✿


I asked that they'd be Godly,
With wisdom of His ways.
A friend to help and guide me
I the troubles of these days.

So often in life, we need someone
To listen while we talk.
Someone who will not condemn or judge,
But encourage us as we walk.

The narrow road we choose to follow
May sometimes make us stumble.
But to have a friend to catch our fall,
Teaches us to be humble.

When I asked the Lord to send a friend,
Though many came and went.
He gave much more than I ever asked,
For you are the friend He sent me.


WITH LOVE AND THANKS FOR BEING THERE, JUDE. X X

Jude Swaddle (Friend) February 7, 2009

GOODNIGHT DARLING

The Lord came to me like a dream one
day and asked, "why do you sorrow?"
I answered, "Lord my life is so full of
pain, I can't face one more tomorrow."
The Lord sat down beside me, and
gently took my hand. He said, "Let me
explain to you and then you'll understand.
Each sorrow is a stepping stone
you must surmount each day,
And every stepping stone you climb
is a sorrow that's passed away.
The road of life is a mountainside,
with crevices in which to be caught,
But as you struggle on your way,
I the Rock, will lend support.
Every stepping stone you climb,
makes spirit and heart grow strong.
Exercising character and faith
this road seems painful and long.
The way is paved with stepping stones,
to uplift your heart and soul,
Though difficult they aid your way,
to a City paved with gold.
I know that you are tired,
for I too have walked this way,
My sorrows did they multiply,
but I cleared many stones away.
I left my rock to lift you up,
I left behind my story.
To give you strength to make your climb,
to that special place in glory.
And never fear, the Rock is here,
You'll never climb this mountain alone
Surmount life's sorrows, continue on,
For they are but stepping stones.
And you'll live on through me.
I'll build a fortress by the sea
where earth can touch the sky!
Where sunlight dances on the leaves
and dreams can never die.
Where peace becomes a promise
and truth man's greatest cause.
I'll stand today, I'll show the way,
and live for those I loved.

SLEEP TIGHT, LOVE JUDE.X

Jude Swaddle (Friend) February 6, 2009

GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART,SLEEP TIGHT.

~~Arched Across The Sky~~



Rainbows created my imagination
as it arched across the sky
on one end there sat you
at the other there sat I...

Imagining I could slide across
over the rainbow to the end
there would be my pot of gold
the sweet love of my dear friend...

The rainbow is a connection
like a bridge from me to you
it appears joined by sunlight
then the grey skies turn to blue...

Arriving after the rainstorms
it becomes so evident to me
thoughts of love follow rainbows
they arched right across the sea...

A colourful arching rainbow
it has no gate, it has no door
it reaches from friend to friend
it arches from shore to shore...

I smiled up today at the sky
how far would my loving smile go
it slid right over to the other side
the other end of the coloured rainbow...


love Jude.x
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Jude Swaddle (Friend) February 5, 2009

♥ May the winds of love ♥
♥ blow softly and whisper ♥
♥ in your ear how much ♥
♥ we love and miss you ♥
♥ and wish that you were here♥
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Jackie Summerford (GTS Friend) February 5, 2009
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