Arthur AUBREY Dancey

1924 - 1996
LocationLoughton,essex
Age72 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth27/03/1924
Date of Death21/10/1996
Visitors8,583 since 17/01/2009
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MY DAD WAS A HARD WORKING MAN AND PROVIDED WELL FOR MUM AND ME, HE WAS ONE OF 14 CHILDREN BUT NOT
ALL SURVIVED, HE SERVED IN THE PARA REGIMENT DURING THE WAR WHERE HE WAS SHOT IN THE WRIST.DAD
SUFFERED WITH CANCER FOR ABOUT 18 MONTHS BUT NEVER LOST HIS SENSE OF HUMOUR, HE LOVED WORKING IN HIS
GARDEN AND GREENHOUSE AND WOULD HELP ANYONE OUT IF HE WAS ABLE TO. DAD WORKED AT FRENCHES AND THEN
WENT ONTO DEBDEN HOUSE AS A GARDNER AND GREEN KEEPER UNTIL HE RETIRED.WHEN HE GOT THE CANCER HE HAD
TO HAVE PART OF HIS EAR REMOVED BUT THIS NEVER STOPPED HIM FROM GOING OUT HE DIDN,T CARE IF PEOPLE
WAS LOOKING AT HIM,THE CANCER SPREAD TO HIS CHEEK AND HE HAD TO HAVE IT PAINFULLY PACKED BY THE
DISTRICT NURSE BUT HE STILL WENT OUT ,MY DAD WAS A REMARKABLE MAN AND WE BOTH WILL ALWAYS MISS HIM,
LOVE YOU LOT,S DAD XXXXXXXXX
HEARTFELT THANKS TO EVERYONE FOR THE TRIBUTES,PHOTO,S AND CANDLES LEFT IN DAD,S MEMORY IT MEANS A
LOT TO MUM AND ME XXXXXXXXXXX ♥♥♥♥♥♥ PLEASE READ MANY THANKS TO STEPHEN MEARA-BLOUNT
FOR SHARING HIS BEAUTIFUL VIDEO AND HIS MUSIC BLESS YOU STEPHEN X Thank you to Andy Ruck for
writing and singing this lovely song and Stephen Meara-Blount for adding another lovely
video,blessyou both x Please read !!!!!!!! Thank you everyone for looking after me while Linda,s
internet was down Love to you all from Angel Arthur ♥♥♥♥♥♥ LINK FOR DADS STAR FEEL
FREE TO TAKE A LOOK . http://www.freenameastar.com/viewstar.php?id=44847
PLEASE READ !!!!!!!!! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR GIVING ME A SPECIAL ANGEL DAY AND FOR LOOKING
AFTER LINDA FOR ME,MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL FROM ANGEL ARTHUR X♥X


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♥ From Water Bug to Dragonfly ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)

The bottom of the pond is muddy and dark
There is fear of the unknown
There is loneliness as things change
There is the desperation of being left behind
Not knowing, not understanding
Watching and waiting
Then the journey comes
Up the stem
What waits beyond?
Sunlight
Freedom
Dancing together in joy with those who went before
And who will come after.
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Mel Xxxxx Yesterday afternoon

*♥* SENT WITH LOVE TO YOU ANGEL *♥*

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Thinking of you is Easy,
We Remember you each day.
The heartbreak that we feel
Just never goes away,

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱

Nothing is the same no more
As we try to carry on,
We want the way it was before.
We found out you were gone,

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱

Yes we have our memories,
We also have the pain,
But all we ever wanted ..
Was to have you home again.

♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱

Copyright Jan Morris 2009

SENDING LOVE ALWAYS LIZ XOXOXOX

Elizabeth Ristevski (Friend) Yesterday midday

3rd November 2009




GOOD MORNING SWEET ANGEL .............

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There's no fairy godmother
To make my wish come true,
No genie in a bottle to bring me to you.

No prayer on a fallen star
No magic potion in a jar,
But I can dream and when I do,
I dream that I'm there with you.

A little prayer,a little tear,
A silent wish that you were here.
Tears in my eyes I can wipe away,
But the ache in my heart will always stay.

Love Jude. x x


Jude Swaddle (Friend) Yesterday morning

For a Special Star with love xxx
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Perhaps they are not
stars in the sky,
but rather openings
where our loved ones
shine down
to let us know they
are happy.

sent with love
june xxx

June Crawshaw (Friend) Monday evening




☆31ST OCTOBER 2009☆



☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ HAPPY HALLOWEEN 2009 ☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆




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♥ ♰ ♥ A SMILE CAN HIDE THE SADNESS ♥ ♰ ♥ A TEAR CAN BE WIPED AWAY ♥ ♰ ♥ BUT THE HEARTACHE OF LOSING YOU ♥ ♰ ♥ WILL NEVER GO AWAY ♥ ♰ ♥


LOVE JUDE. XX

Jude Swaddle (Friend) Saturday afternoon

♥ The Only Way ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)

• The only way we can be protected from the pain of loss and the grief we feel, is by having never loved.
• How empty our lives would be, and what a lot of wonderful shared moments we would have missed, if we had not known.
• So, although what we feel at the moment is terrible, we must try to remember that it is because we have all been privileged to have known and loved, that we now feel the pain and sadness.

Mel Xxxxx 5 days ago

GOODNIGHT GODBLESS ARTHUR

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Here is a glowing candle..
That's lit with lots of love..
Just to say Night night..
To you Angel up above

I will also leave a tribute..
On your memorial with love
And I have wrote this little poem..
Just for you...
Special Angel up above

God Bless you special Angel..
Now I shall say night night
Watch over your family with love
And whisper to them...
GOODNIGHT

copyright� Jackie Thomas 02/09/09.

with love june xxx

June Crawshaw (Friend) 6 days ago

♦♥♦ Cherished Memories ♦♥♦

Sometimes it's hard to understand
To see the reason why,
Sometimes it's hard to find the words
To say that last goodbye.
Sometimes it's hard to look ahead
With eyes still filled with tears,
But all our cherished memories
Will live on through the years.
And though there are no answers
The questions still remain,
Sometimes we just can't comprehend
Or understand the pain.
Sometimes it's hard to look beyond
The rainclouds in the sky,
Though all our cherished memories
Will stay as time goes by.
Sometimes when we close our eyes
The only thing we see,
Are moments that are long gone by
Of how things used to be.
Sometimes we need to just let go,
Let tears fall as they may,
Reliving cherished memories
That never fade away.

(Author unknown)

♥ With love ♥

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LINDA, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THE CANDLE, TRIBUTE, PICTURES AND GIFT YOU LEFT ANTHONY ON HIS FIRST ANGEL DAY. I WAS NOT ABLE TO GET ON UNTIL LATE OUR TIME, WHICH WAS THE NEXT DAY THERE AND I WAS SO OVERWELM BY ALL THE LOVE SENT TO US. IT MADE A SAD DAY A LITTLE EASIER. IT MADE ME SMILE WHEN I CAME ON THAT I HAVE SUCH WONDERFUL FRIENDS. THANK YOU FOR THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. I DONT KNOW WERE I WOULD BE WITHOUT YOUR SUPPORT THIS LAST YEAR. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT FOR ME AND MY ANGELS. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ANGEL THANK YOU FOR KEEPING ANTHONY IN THE LIGHT WHILE I WAS AWAY. ALL MY LOVE GLORIA ANTHONY'S MOM XOXO

Gloria Anthony'S Mom (Friend) 6 days ago

~~ 28TH OCTOBER 2009. ~~

GOOD AFTERNOON SWEET ANGEL .........

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X MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW.X

Jude Swaddle (Friend) 1 week ago

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Prayer of Faith.

We trust that beyond absence there is a presence.
That beyond the pain there can be healing.
That beyond the brokenness there can be wholeness.
That beyond the anger there may be peace.
That beyond the hurting there may be forgiveness.
That beyond the silence there may be the word.
That beyond the word there may be understanding.
That through understanding there is love.

Anon

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Mel Xxxxx 1 week ago
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